Decision making!

What is the most difficult thing in this world?

No it’s about conquering the Everest or swimming the English Channel. With sheer handwork, practice, determination and persistence one can do these things.

But the more difficult thing is decision making!

Imagine you’re in a group... having a heated discussion on something that needs a decision. What does it take for the group to arrive at a common point? Loads of ego massage, shaking your head to things that you really don’t seem to agree with and most of all a herd mentality, I'll go with them rather than stand alone and fight....

In your own personal space as well decision making is never an easy process. How many times have you been at a restaurant not being able to make a decision on what to eat and then finally saying I’ll eat what that person on that table is eating because it looks appetizing!

Alas one cannot make others' decision your choice in your private space all the time. Your decision has to be your own and moreover it has to be sane so that the rest of your life is in safe custody. Am lurking at that stage in life where am unable to make a decision… Help!!